Sorry been away for a bit.
So there has been progress, through complaints and some contacts at OR they granted an expedited FTTC activation, and I am now back online. So that is the good news. They are also looking at getting FTTP done but I feel this will end the same way as the rest with the ECCs being too high.
The bad news is that at some point, I am going to have to come off FTTC (and want to ofc) and I will still need to pay ECCs for FTTP. ISPreviews is looking into this, as the story is more about the stop sell and the ECCs. I also have some contacts at BT/OR who are also looking into what the options are.